Warning: The content below might hurt your sensibilities as a Twitter Addict.
Twitter is the most popular microblogging service out there and saying its users swear by it would be an understatement. There are undoubtedly very few services in this space(or any other) that are this high on customer love and even fewer services which have an entire industry surrounding themselves.
There was a time when Twitter was experiencing major issues staying up/running and there was a spurt of other alternatives with some offering new features all together or some simply adding features that some Twitter users always felt should have been a part of the system, but none of them really caused a mass exodus and Twitter is now back with a bang and is growing like crazy.
Being a Twitter user myself and a passionate social media enthusiast I’ve always wondered what really makes Twitter click. Being the first kid on the block, being simple and neatly designed, getting attention from early adopters is all critical to get a service started but to keep it going is another ball game. Many other services in this space or other have most or all of these pre-requisites but Twitter offers something at which others aren’t any where close. Yes, I am talking about the “Ego-Massage”. Nothing works in web 2.0 like the Ego-Massage(EM). The more you offer(or happen to offer) it the more you’ll find your users going head over heels for your service.
While it cannot be said with certainty if the emphasis on EM was their right from the start or it picked up some time later or its all due to various 3rd party tools but its for sure one of the unconscious reasons that makes people stick to twitter, talk and care about it a lot. Lets see how it works.
1) Follow not Subscribe:
In Twitter if you have subscribed to someone’s updates you are following them and in the same way if someone has subscribed to your updates they are following you. Functionally they might mean the same but both words have way different associations, while subscriber is a neutral word a follower is certainly isn’t. 100 followers is not quite equal to 100 subscribers or 100 friends for that matter. Who cares about friends if you have followers ?
2) Follower Count does Matter:
Don’t believe anyone(leaving maybe Louis Gray) who tells you they are not bothered by their follower count or they are just interested in people they follow not the one’s who follow them.
This is the reason why there are numerous articles like this telling you how to have more followers on Twitter but hardly any on how to have more friends on Facebook or articles like this which highlight the pressure one feels to follow back their followers which basically is derived from the pressure to keep them pleased and ultimately keep them chained. While there were people loosing sleep over a drop in follower count(organic or courtesy twitter) some one saw an opportunity and thus there was Qwitter . A service that informs you every time some one un-follows you and the last tweet you posted before they un-followed . So now you can question people who unfollow you, seek reasons, introspect your tweeting and a hell lot more. The stage is set for an endless game.
Having lots of followers is one thing but what’s the point if you cannot carry the follower count as a crown and show rest of the world ? That’s what folks at twittercounter were smart enough to realize and their usage stats confirm this (In total we generated 171,281,809 counters since we started tracking). Hundreds of thousands of blogs now sport these.
3) Tools that Further Inflate your ego:
As if having a huge(and portable) “follower” count was not sufficient for one’s ego, somebody came up with Twitter Ratio. So now its not just about how many followers you have its also about your Twitter Ratio i.e follower/following ratio. Those who need constant ego massages can be found tirelessly indulging in maintaining( or should I say increasing) their Twitter Ratio .
Then there’s Twitter Grader
Since more is always merrier especially when it comes to ego boosting we also have twitterholic . So what if you can’t be a topper when it comes to follower count or twitter ratio. You just might be a topper or a top Twitter user from your region, which most certainly adds to the ego.
Want to know you Twitter Influence ? You can apparently do that too, here
Other people’s thoughts on Twitter’s Ego Massage
I would really love to hear what works for you and to what extent are you affected by the above mentioned factors, it at all you are that is 🙂
Here’s a fun “Twitter Whore” video:
as was rightly said in a post i read sometime back ‘Twitter is what you make of it’ 🙂
generalisations really dont work (for me) 🙂
Absolutely, that holds true for most things in life, Twitter included.
But I see such behavior more often than not.
Perhaps that’s the reason behind so many ego-inflation tools.
What are your observations ?
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When not face-to-face with people, we rely upon other tools to inform and shape our opinions of others i.e. do they have other friends/followers/ subscribers. And more often than not, we orbit in web circles that massage our ego and on platforms where we feel liked and accepted. Ego massage, in fact, seems to be a huge part of the “sticky” factor for any social network. It’s part of the winning formula.
I Agree, just as in real life in the online world too we like to orbit in circles that make us feel wanted.
Ego massage to some extent is important but when people start getting too much of it, they get addicted to it and then starts the trouble.
Truely, twitter has also let me gone crazy because of its hi fi features.The whole site is totally user friendly for using the twitter applications as I experienced.You can read more about this site at http://thetwittersecret.com/.
hi buddy.Twitter applications has let me know about its hi fi features.
Wow!! That’s cool… I m new to twitter… actually I didn’t try to use it… After orkut i m fed of this… But it is increasing in demand and I really thank you to the guidance u have provided for a new user…